But it was not a reason for someone to release the dream of his life. Consistency in maintaining one's every dream will be true - really tested, whether we want the exam or do not want it at all. Forging by forging will continue to be faced by every human being without exception.
There was one fellow who said that the forging was so weakened and demoralized, but if we change slightly the way we look towards forging - forging it or practically in the face of criticism over our every step, then it would seem much easier. It might even be a great help to advance one or even several steps. In other words, We Must have a positive thinking for everything.
Many things we miss when we have a negative view of any criticism that comes into our lives. One of the overlooked is the opportunity for much better without us knowing it because when we experience it all, lots of color in our sense, especially sense to retreat from all that is before us, or may even run away from all conditions - conditions that really we do not want , when it was the moment where we feel at the point where we need a lot of support to restore the starting conditions unstable, a condition in which we feel very aggrieved by the circumstances that are not on our side, even though it's just a feeling we are alone.
Not easy to accept criticism from others, because we will feel all the critics who entered our lives will disturb our feelings. It is a reasonableness, respectively - each one has its own way in accepting criticism from others. Most accept that criticism as input for a much better live though in the process of acceptance for each - each person is different, there is a need time to think about it, but some are directly accepted gracefully. There are still others who think that the criticism that goes in our lives either from friends, family or even our enemies is an insult. The presumption is that we must change together, or in other words the view that assumes that criticism is an insult that may affect their self esteem must be immediately changed to a positive outlook, like the considers that it is a mirror which is a reflection of ourselves, and each - each person is free to have thoughts in our rate. But there is one thing to keep in mind that the reflection of others addressed to us is not always objective. So we need to sort out the reflections that will make us much better.
It is not easy to maintain our consistency in maintaining the spirit of our lives in order to remain On Fire and it is not easy also to continue to maintain and realize the dream - our dream. But we never know if we just shut up and wishing - if. Because what we need is a correct ACTION - real, an action to reach the goal - the goal we have set.
We never know our limits, we never even know the journey of this life. But all that should be desired and planned so that the direction of our lives in accordance with our plans. When everything does not go according to plan so treat it as a learning process that will never be a waste - waste. Maybe someday we will know the lessons of things - things that do not fit with our plans and maybe that's when we will be much to be a very grateful. Rest assured that nothing is nothing - nothing in this world and be patient in trying because all need a PROCESS. Patience is not limitless ...
Prumpung, January 17, 2012 (21:24 GMT)
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